| The Three Seconds Rule
Even if you really cannot think
of anything to initiate a conversation with a girl,
whatever you do, don't break the 3s rule! Act in
3 seconds nevertheless, even if you have no idea,
how to continue. If you act in 3 seconds, she will
notice it, no matter where she just popped in from
or where you popped in from or how you happened
to pass each other by in a given geographical location.
She will see the spontaneity in your approach and
it will work in your favour. If however you wait
and hesitate and then decide to approach, you are
in a decidedly weaker situation. The 3 second rule
is extremely important, in one night using this
rule you can talk to many ladies.......
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If you just arrived and accessed
her in 3 seconds, she will know it was spontaneous
because she noticed you arrive whether she wanted
to or not - you were a change in a static environment.
Or if she just arrived and you accessed her in 3
seconds, she will recognise the spontaneity of it
again, because you couldn't have accessed her before
- she simply had not yet arrived. If however you
just pop out of nowhere - she didn't see you arrive
neither did she just arrive and the only change
in a static environment was you accessing her -
you just might set off her stalker alarm. Who knows,
how long you've been following her or watching her
in secret or gobbling her up with your eyes. Spooky!
Argh, get away you freak! So the only way to avoid
a situation like that is to use the 3s rule. Besides
not setting off any alarms of her because of the
obvious spontaneity of your approach, you are also
doing yourself a favour.
In three seconds, you have no time
to become sweaty, trembling, stuttering - to acquire
all the sure-fire signs of an AFC lacking any confidence,
substance or consequence, a failure with women and
life in general, a complete repellent of beautiful
girls. So even if you start sweating, stuttering
and trembling while talking to her, you weren't
that way when you initiated contact - you just didn't
have the time for that. And it's the first impression
that counts. And if that first impression of you
was that of a confident and spontaneous man, her
feelings for you were positive from the start, which
in turns greatly the diminishes the chances of you
turning into a plateful of jelly while having a
conversation with her.
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The 3 seconds rule of course is
not an absolute - you may simply not have noticed
her, while not specifically being tied up with something
that might have stopped you from approaching her,
or while still noticing her, you might have been
busy with something (or somebody:). The three seconds
start counting from the moment you have spotted
her AND are free to approach. But when these two
conditions are met, you really don't have the time
to ponder, whether or not SHE noticed that you didn't
approach her because you were either too busy or
simply oblivious - the clock is ticking, so move
it!
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